Prov.22:15 says, "Foolishness is bound in the
heart of a child, but the rod of correction shall drive it far from
him." Born within every child is a tendency toward evil. The word
"foolishness" in our text is not childishness. Too often parents
punish a child for just being a child and doing what a child does.
Instead, the child should only be reproved for being a wicked child, not
just being a child. "Foolishness" comes from a Hebrew root word
that means "perverse" or "crooked." A child does not
need strong rebuke until there is a wicked deed that warrants that kind of
response. See the following with me:
I. The Experience Of A Child (15a)- When the Bible
speaks of "foolishness" being bound in the heart of a child, I
believe it has reference to "every" child. Each child is born
totally depraved and with evil tendencies and propensities. No child is
born free from the effects of man’s sin in the Garden of Eden. Since all
children have the tendency to do wrong from time to time, then a child
must be disciplined. Crookedness or perverseness must be driven from a
child. The root word of the word here for "foolishness" comes
from a root word that means "tied. Discipline helps "untie"
from sin.
II. The Exercise Of The Rod (15b)- Here the
Scriptures speak of a "rod of correction." Children should not
be disciplined merely to vent our feelings of frustration or anger.
Correction must be given with the overall well being of the child in mind
for the present and the future.If we use the rod on them, it will help
deliver their so ul from hell (Prov. 23:14). Rather than being cruel and
crude when we chastise our children, we actually are the most cruel when
we do not correct them when it is very much needed.
III. The Expulsion Of The Wrong (15c)- Note the word "drive it
far from him." Foolishness does not disappear on its own by the
wishful thinking of the parents. Neither does the deliberate acts of the
children completely get the job done. The rod of correction is God’s way
(Prov. 19:8; 23:13,14; 29:17). We are to be like our Heavenly Father and
not chasten for our own pleasure but as a divinely appointed means of
driving foolishness away from your child. You fail in your responsibility
as a parent, as well as failing God and your child, if you do not correct
and punish them when necessary.